Productive day
I hadn't actually planned to explain gayness to my 9 year old son. It sort of happened. He'd never seen my shirt before, and with my hair up, wasn't sure it was me when i came to pick him up. (he recognized my umbrella)
We talked, and it turns out he'd only heard about it as an insult or from overheard discussions. I explained what it was: when a man loves another man or a woman loves another woman in the same way mommy and daddy love each other. He's all "well, that's nobody's business then. And why can't they get married? I mean, I wouldn't want to marry Bradlikin, because after 2 days he drives me crazy."
(this from a kid whose sister makes lesbian sims)
Our Amendment 3 was VERY poorly worded. Not only did it outlaw gay marriage, it would invalidate any form of domestic partnership, AND allow the state to decide who is eligible to marry. I see another round of "Loving vs. Virginia" happening, it was that poorly written.
Food diary
12 oz mt Dew pitch black
1 c. cereal
3/4 c 2% milk
6 miniature 100 Grand bars
48 oz water
2/3 can chicken noodle soup
1/2 slice pizza
8 oz red slime (strawberry jello/lemonade/gingerale)
12 oz gingerale
1 can chunky clam chowder
1 chocolate cupcake
16.9 oz coke
20 oz water
We talked, and it turns out he'd only heard about it as an insult or from overheard discussions. I explained what it was: when a man loves another man or a woman loves another woman in the same way mommy and daddy love each other. He's all "well, that's nobody's business then. And why can't they get married? I mean, I wouldn't want to marry Bradlikin, because after 2 days he drives me crazy."
(this from a kid whose sister makes lesbian sims)
Our Amendment 3 was VERY poorly worded. Not only did it outlaw gay marriage, it would invalidate any form of domestic partnership, AND allow the state to decide who is eligible to marry. I see another round of "Loving vs. Virginia" happening, it was that poorly written.
Food diary
12 oz mt Dew pitch black
1 c. cereal
3/4 c 2% milk
6 miniature 100 Grand bars
48 oz water
2/3 can chicken noodle soup
1/2 slice pizza
8 oz red slime (strawberry jello/lemonade/gingerale)
12 oz gingerale
1 can chunky clam chowder
1 chocolate cupcake
16.9 oz coke
20 oz water
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Man, I didn't even know what Loving vs. VA was until I had to look it up for an essay on being a mongrel. It's amazing how far we come and how far we don't come all at once. :) KC
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(Anonymous) 2004-11-03 02:09 am (UTC)(link)xxx, Mog
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Re: Amendment 3, any chance it can be overturned on legal grounds because of the sloppy drafting? Since overturning it on the grounds of what's right would clearly be impossible.
P.S. I bet Mudd's feeling a little silly right now about signing that petition for an amendment that those little old ladies in the school gym were pushing all those months ago.
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Obi, he has no idea. He's brilliant but scatterbrained. Creative, funny and sweet.
I'll see if I can figure out what to do with Amendment 3. Hey, Mississippi passed theirs 6 to 1. I feel a little better.
Mudd is of the opinions "I got it out there so it wouldn't be quietly passed in back rooms. I voted against it. It will be overturned because it is badly written." I can see his point. (of course, he's an intellectual and an optimist)